[Yes well she has a way of doing that it seems, saying things that others do not always like to hear.]

I would not pursue it otherwise! In The woodland Realm there is much drinking and feasting. King Thranduil throws a large gathering for his people to come and enjoy the festivities. I would like to have someone to celebrate with as I do not trust many people here. A few are too liberal with their affections.

[Meaning she did not want to risk getting drunk and ending up with the most embarrassing one night stand marriage ever.]

I promise it will only be a few drinks. I know an excellent bar that serves both alcoholic and non alcoholic drinks!